Thursday, December 20, 2007

On Second Thought

I have been thinking about my last post since I hit the "publish post" button, and I have changed my mind on one thing. I'm gonna discontinue sex and limit drinking, but I am going to continue to date. The old adage, "a closed mouth doesn't get fed" kept coming to mind.

How can I find a what I want if I close myself off from it? I do enjoy dating and going out with guys, but what I didn't enjoy was the feeling of committment that I had to call them back, or have sex, or go out on a second date. I'll just enjoy myself and see what happens in the future.

That's All.

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Blogger antneya said...

Good for will find something your looking for wait and see.

3:30 PM, December 20, 2007  
Blogger Mr. Jones said...

Don't punish yourself. The squeaky wheel gets the oil.

7:39 PM, December 20, 2007  
Blogger Cocoa Rican said...

This reminds me of that old gospel spiritual that said, "He may not be there when you want him, but he's always there on time." Go out, drink responsibly, fuck with care and enjoy your soul mate will meet you when you're enjoying you. It's hard to meet "THE ONE" when you're not being EXACTLY who you are and enjoying it. It's all about you and when you live it, he'll see it. Good luck pa!

8:00 PM, December 20, 2007  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Fate has a funny way of telling you whose the boss.

9:38 PM, December 20, 2007  
Anonymous Steve said...

Yeah. This sounds a little more on target - acheivable even.

1:57 AM, December 21, 2007  
Blogger Kensilo said...


For me the easy solution to that is just let them know up front of your intentions and how u feel AT that present time. Make it a 'I call you, you dont call me policy" And if you feel you want to date that person again you hit them up.

See Solution Solved..LOL.

7:49 AM, December 21, 2007  
Blogger Darius T. Williams said...

so yea, reanalysis in my opinion is always good. I say be yourself. but remember, you always attract who u are...john maxwell explains that in his book as the law of attraction. so, if u r happy with what u r attracting, then don't do a thing. or you can u use that analytical gene of yours and reaccess who u are, what u need to develop, and work a plan of action. then when u become a better norris, you will attract a better potential. just a thought.

8:06 AM, December 21, 2007  
Blogger bLaQ~n~MiLD said...

I like this plan better!


10:54 AM, December 21, 2007  
Blogger Ladynay said...

Do you and have a happy holidays while your at it!

1:16 PM, December 21, 2007  
Blogger I am J said...

good then whats coming in the mail fits right in.

2:06 PM, December 21, 2007  
Blogger Chet said...

Pleased to hear that you have re elvaluated the matter at hand. Yes continue to date and the interim of dating make it a point to convey your message about commitment and sexual practices.

5:45 PM, December 22, 2007  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Yeah dating can be fun, when it's just that, DATING, nothing else, nothing more.

1:08 PM, December 23, 2007  
Blogger BuddahDesmond said...

Sounds like a good idea to me. Be open to the possibilities. Just do it on your own terms. But be honest and upfront with others (and yourself) about intentions and expectations. That way no one will get it twisted down the line. That special someone is bound to come your way. You just wait and see.

Happy Holidays!

6:59 PM, December 23, 2007  
Blogger C. Baptiste-Williams said...

so they were right when they said it wouldnt last??

just jokin good luck on your thing

9:15 AM, December 25, 2007  
Blogger JON said...

Soulmate alert! I hope you find that special one in 2008. Have a wonderful time and all the best..

10:02 AM, December 27, 2007  
Blogger yet another black guy said...

i like that adage, i'm gonna apply it to 2008!

11:57 PM, December 28, 2007  

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