Does It Matter To You?
So I have a co-worker that has a bit of a dilemma. I'll explain the situation. She has been dating/seeing a guy for 8 years. Of those 8 years, they have been living together for 2 years. The man takes care of her and pays most of the bills and treats her well. When she told me this, I was thinking "must be nice". But then she told me that she was tired of being with him and that there are a lot of things that she doesn't like about him *I guess it took 8 years to realize that* So I asked her why if she was tired of him doesn't she just leave him and find another man. Her reason: HE HAS A BIG DICK THAT FEELS GOOD.
Wait, I'm not finished. For the last 6 months, she has been dating another guy on the side that she is most certainly in love with. The guy is willing to do whatever she wants and wants to take care of her and has even offered to buy her a car to replace the clunker she has now. So I asked her why doesn't she dump Guy #1 and get with Guy #2. Her Reason: HE HAS A DICK THAT'S NOT EVEN 4 INCHES LONG AND IN ORDER FOR HER TO GET AN ORGASM SHE HAS TO WORK TOO HARD.
I looked at her like she had gold teeth and a jheri curl! I asked her why dick size was so important to her. She told me that she likes getting her orgasms without having to work for it and that "big dicks do it for her". For once in my life, I kept my opinion to myself and just said "oh".
But I don't get it. Why does the size of a man's dick have so much say in whether or not he is worthy of being with? That's one aspect of a man that has never had any bearings on how I felt about him. I have dated and had sex with dudes with all lengths and girths (If that makes me sound like a hoe, oh well). Believe me, I have never failed to achieve an orgasm no matter what the size of the dick I was playing with.
So I ask you all, does the size of a dude's dick have any say in your decision to date him?
Does sex get better with an increase in the size of the dick?
Have any of you ever measured your's or someone elses' dick?
And for those asking for a big dick, what are you offering?
Labels: opinion
posted by That Dude Right There at
1/05/2007 09:23:00 PM
20 Comments:
Girlfriend's a mess...but it looks like she's got it like that. It's a shame because from your descriptions, both guys actually seem decent. Assuming they are decent, if they find out about each other, they'll likely become dogs in their next relationships. Shame.
Your girl is playing with fire and one day she'll get burned.
As for dick size, that doesn't matter to me either and actually I lean towards smaller dick guys such as my current guy....ooops did I just say that? *LOL*
For me it's not the dick size but how they work it.
1st..chick is a mess.
Naw size doesn't matter really( I prefer average sizes)....but um if dude was like teeny tiny I'd probably have second thoughts.
ok. everybody else has been politically correct, but i'm just gonna be real: my dick gets hard for big dicks (8.5 in +) i think girlfriend is just being honest. a bigger dig hits more spots and fulfills deep seated pyschological needs (whatever those might be). Like most things in life, dick size is about range: some are too small, some are too big and some are just right. For me too small is less than 6", too big is 11"+, just right is 6.5" to 10" with 9" being ideal. i try to be politically correct, but my dick don't lie. i get hornier, harder, and cum farther and more often with bigger dicks.
Dick size matters. If your not big enough for me to feel it then a relationship is not going to work out with me. Sex is not the only thing in a relationship, but it's a nice fraction of it.
The bigger the dyck the better the sex idea is BOGUS! One of the largest men I've experienced just so happens to be one of the worst experiences I've ever had!
strictly speaking size does not matter to the female anatomy (its more about technique … look up “g-spot” in your home encyclopedia folks) so if a women prefers size its probably more a mental thing then physical
anyway i’m inclined to say whatever floats her boat …
but I do agree with e above, sounds like this girl is playing games with two decent guys
i think she deserves to be in the situation she is in. If sex is the most important thing for her she needs to be right where she is.
LOL -- i agree w/ redman!
Not to cause not type of debate, but I somewhat disagree with terpfan. The books might say that and that's sorta kinda true. I've read somewhere that our canals are about 4 inches which isn't much. But from my experience (granted it was only one dude I'm referring to)if your dealing with a short short man and in trying several things you still couldn't tell he's inside you there is a problem that's larger than lack of technique and where your heads at.
Now I will agree that larger dicks are nice to look at, but I would never let the size determine whether or not I date a dude (or whether or not I give him some).
And who in the hell is measuring anyway to know that a dick is "ideal"?
And secondly, for those asking for a big dick, what are you offering?
Oh, yeah. Two questions have been added.
Never measured and coochie, ROFL!
no lie, i can measure fairly accurately by sight and/or by hand, and i ALWAYS measure. (no ruler is necessary: each finger is approximately 1 inch or 2 cm thick; your palm/fist is about 4 inches wide. 2 fists = 8 in., etc. [some obstetricians still talk of a woman being ready to deliver when she is dilated "5 fingers" or 10 cm]; the length from your lips to the opening of your thoat is about 5 in.)
bruh here brings 8 in to the table
ladynay's point is well taken by me ... she has me at a disadvantage as she can speak from first hand experience
advantage: ladynay
i'll try to stick to the male perspective from now on :)
personally i'm not hung up on size (no pun intended)
Big dick is big dick. Little dick is little dick. Do I want big dick or little dick?
If it boils down to dick size, give me something I can work with.
But if the man is going to be sincere, a sweet heart, someone who is going to cuddle and whisper love songs in my ears....give me something I can work with...LOL
Seriously though, I am an ass man, so if you got a teeny weeny, then satisfy me with some ass. We can make this work.
The one thing that is missing from the story is, how does she satisfy him? You see, I can give dick just as good as I can take dick. But what does she have to offer?
She better get it together before dude #1 and dude #2 hookup together and leave her without a big dick or a little dick.
@Playboy Adonis-I'm going to call her and tell her just that!
WOW! To be honest I'll be with the man that truly treats me right and when it comes down to the sex I feel if you are really in love you can have an orgasm just for ya souls connecting in a way like no other...do different things or even play with yaself while having sex LOL..Don't know what to tell ol girl!
I looked at her like she had gold teeth and a jheri curl!......haaaaa! Size is definiteky a factor, but not a deal breaker. She sounds shallow to tell you the truth.
Okay…okay…I get it…
First, I don’t think the issue with ‘ole girl is whether she’s no longer wants to be with her man and stays with him because of his generous magic stick…something else keeps her there – I mean, come on, there are plenty of good sized men in the world (uh…not speaking from experience or nufin’…LOL)
Second, she’s got a good deal going…both men appear to love her and do anything for her. What she now needs to do is get her own place have #1 pay for it, while #2 takes care of the car note. Enjoy #1 for the d*ck and #2 for the in-love factor. Ultimately, she’s not “in-love” with either one of the dudes…when you’re “in-love” the d*ck is right and the man attached to the d*ck is right.
Now, if I’m going to keep it real, size matters. As a man, first and foremost, we must recognize that we are visual creatures. Visual stimuli is almost always required… that said, a man doesn’t need to have donkey d*ck, but he most certainly shouldn’t resemble my 18-month nephew. A man needs to be visually appealing and physically satisfying. Personally, tiny penises serve to irritate me physically and I can’t tolerate those belonging in the equine family, so I think it’s safe to say that between 6-9 inches (referred to as husband d*ck) should suffice.
I'd be lying if I said size doesn't matter. I dont go looking for it and will work with whatever (to a degree depending on the man) but if he has nothing else to offer but dick..he betta be bring more than a snack to the table. If its a deep routed relationship I can work with him for "alternatives. Then its all good. Im not gon lie tho...dont want no short short man :)
I don't have a comment, but very interesting to read. I'm learning there is a lot revealed in comments. It's always interesting to see how ppl think about things
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