Monday, December 11, 2006

Torture

So I open my email and get a message from the person that inspired THIS post. It said "I still care about you and want you". I replied, "it doesn't seem like it".

It seems that the guy that was making VP so happy, actually wasn't all that great.

Blogworld, what do I do about this man?

a.) Should I attempt to start communication again?

b.) Should I forget him all together?

c.) Should I take him day by day and see what happens?


I think that c.) is probably the best choice since the other situation in #10 of THIS post has seemed to stall.

10 Comments:

Blogger Bernie said...

d.) Play hard to get. Make him prove he is genuinely interested and wants you and only you. Feign indifference and don't be available for him every time he wants you.

You know how you feel about him. How does he feel about you and how will you really know? That is what remains to be determined.

1:03 AM, December 11, 2006  
Blogger Ladynay said...

I think you should leave him alone, he is taking you through too many changes and YOU are the only one who catches the short end of the stick.

To me it's like...oh since this dude isn't what I thought he was, lemme get back up with TDRT and tell him what he wants to hear, I know he'll let me back in....

Like your some kind of backup plan and some ish! *eyeroll*

8:07 AM, December 11, 2006  
Blogger lj said...

What do you WANT to do? D+o you really think things will be different this time?

4:59 PM, December 11, 2006  
Blogger 4GOTTEN1 said...

Never Back Track man EX's are EX's for a reason...plus man you are to good to be anyones second choice regardless of how much u love that person. Don't sell yourself short for this man.It's not worth it

5:39 PM, December 11, 2006  
Blogger Bernie said...

After reading everyone else's comments, I have to agree with them. (Really, what was I thinking?) Your relationship is kind of like a bad drug habit. He knows he's got you hooked and can string you along to his own advantage.

Time to detox and "just say no."

6:57 PM, December 11, 2006  
Blogger The Captain said...

If you are sitting on a nail, GET YOUR ASS UP!

9:56 PM, December 11, 2006  
Blogger life said...

Okay, I'm starting to believe you like this mess this guy is carrying you through. Are you really entertaining this? It's funny how he has feelings for you when it didn't work out. He's fully of shit

10:28 PM, December 11, 2006  
Blogger ReddMann said...

why do we ask questions we know the answer 2?

3:41 PM, December 12, 2006  
Blogger That Dude Right There said...

We ask questions that we know the answer to because we never fully know the answer to questions about life. We don't always know exactly what to do no matter how informed we think we are about life.

At the end of the day, all of our decision are made by us and we are the ones who have to suffer or celebrate the consequences.

4:52 PM, December 12, 2006  
Anonymous BuddahDesmond said...

It's probably best to remain the way you've been thus far -- without him. Unless he's really serious -- and I do mean really serious -- and has changed his ways, don't even entertain the thought. And even if you do entertain the thought, considering the way things went down, he has to prove that he's sincere and wants to be with you. I think you should just let it go cause you can find much better. You deserve much better.

9:13 PM, December 15, 2006  

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