Answer Time #2
Since 4gotten1 asked me 20 questions, I figured that I would grant him is own post. Here we go!!!!!!!!!!
Questions:
1. What is your biggest regret and why?
I regret not going to law school when I finished college. I had a lot going on with my mother dying of cancer, relationship issues, financial shortages, and some other things. But I have refocused and will try to attend starting in fall of 2007. That give me just over a year go get my shit together. I regret it because I would have graduated and been practicing by now.
2. What is one thing u want to do but haven't gotten around to doing yet.
See number 1. I have put it off for years now because I felt like I wasn't in the financial position to do so. You can't work while in law school, but I will make a way. Even if I have to sell a little leg on the streets.
3. When are u and I going to get together to form the Atlanta Blogger Alliance(A.B.A) so we can give the NY bloggers a run for their money...we can do the monthly discussions and book clubs as well can't we...Show them our city isn't just sex.
I have often thought about this in my year of blogging. But you must remember that a lot of the NYC bloggers were friends before they started blogging. A lot of us have met after we started blogging. But I think that at least a night out at a restaurant or something together would start us off fine. When you are game, I am too. And I know thatat least Mashaun would participate.
4.Do you think there is someone out there for you?
Yes, of course there is. But I have also decided to not sit and wait for him to appear. I am gonna continue my life as I want to until he arrives.
5.Are u out to your family?
Not officially, but they know that I am gay. My sister is a lesbian, so she figured it out. My brothers have all been to my house and have noticed my calendars, my books and all that kind of stuff. So yeah, they know.
6.What do u feel is the biggest myth about black gay men.
That we can't sustain relationships. That's bullshit if I have ever seen any.
7. Are you happy?
I am quite happy. But if you really are asking if I am satisfied with my life, I will day not yet and I don't think that I will be anytime soon.
8. What is the #1 most important thing someone who is interested in a friendship with u should know?
That you should always be honest with me because I will do the same with you.
9.When was the last time you had sex with someone you actually loved?
July 2004 when me and Dreads hooked up (2.5 years after we broke up).
10. Would you ever adopt Children?
Not would, but when. I have always wanted a family and I will adopt children one day, partner or no.
11.If it were legal would you marry a man?
Is fat meat greasy! Hell yes. But I would really have to be committed to this man for life before I think about marriage.
12.Who would you say has been your biggest cheerleader in life, and why?
No one, but me. It doesn't really seem like anyone has been pulling for me except me.
13. What is your definition of cheating?
Cheating is ANYTHING that you would do with someone that you wouldn't do in front of your partner.
14. What was the last book you read?
E. Lynn Harris' "I Say A Little Prayer". I'm going to keep my opinion of it under wraps.
15. How often do u masturbate?
It depends on my mood. Sometimes once a week, and sometimes 3-4 times a day.
16.Who or what has had the biggest impact on your life and how?
I think that my parents not being very encouraging of anything that I did made me the independent person that I am. I had to do most of the things that I have done with no backup.
17. What is your worst habit?
Talking too damn much. I divulge too much of my personal life to friends. I need to keep some secrets to myself.
18. Physically what is your best feature?
People tell me that I have a nice ass and legs.
19.Do you enjoy porn?
Not really. But I do watch it sometimes.
20.When it is all said and done how would u like to be remembered?
Of all thw questions that you have asked, this is the one that I honesly do know how to answer.
4Gotten1, I do thank you for asking all of these questions. See what happens to the squeakiest wheel?
Questions:
1. What is your biggest regret and why?
I regret not going to law school when I finished college. I had a lot going on with my mother dying of cancer, relationship issues, financial shortages, and some other things. But I have refocused and will try to attend starting in fall of 2007. That give me just over a year go get my shit together. I regret it because I would have graduated and been practicing by now.
2. What is one thing u want to do but haven't gotten around to doing yet.
See number 1. I have put it off for years now because I felt like I wasn't in the financial position to do so. You can't work while in law school, but I will make a way. Even if I have to sell a little leg on the streets.
3. When are u and I going to get together to form the Atlanta Blogger Alliance(A.B.A) so we can give the NY bloggers a run for their money...we can do the monthly discussions and book clubs as well can't we...Show them our city isn't just sex.
I have often thought about this in my year of blogging. But you must remember that a lot of the NYC bloggers were friends before they started blogging. A lot of us have met after we started blogging. But I think that at least a night out at a restaurant or something together would start us off fine. When you are game, I am too. And I know thatat least Mashaun would participate.
4.Do you think there is someone out there for you?
Yes, of course there is. But I have also decided to not sit and wait for him to appear. I am gonna continue my life as I want to until he arrives.
5.Are u out to your family?
Not officially, but they know that I am gay. My sister is a lesbian, so she figured it out. My brothers have all been to my house and have noticed my calendars, my books and all that kind of stuff. So yeah, they know.
6.What do u feel is the biggest myth about black gay men.
That we can't sustain relationships. That's bullshit if I have ever seen any.
7. Are you happy?
I am quite happy. But if you really are asking if I am satisfied with my life, I will day not yet and I don't think that I will be anytime soon.
8. What is the #1 most important thing someone who is interested in a friendship with u should know?
That you should always be honest with me because I will do the same with you.
9.When was the last time you had sex with someone you actually loved?
July 2004 when me and Dreads hooked up (2.5 years after we broke up).
10. Would you ever adopt Children?
Not would, but when. I have always wanted a family and I will adopt children one day, partner or no.
11.If it were legal would you marry a man?
Is fat meat greasy! Hell yes. But I would really have to be committed to this man for life before I think about marriage.
12.Who would you say has been your biggest cheerleader in life, and why?
No one, but me. It doesn't really seem like anyone has been pulling for me except me.
13. What is your definition of cheating?
Cheating is ANYTHING that you would do with someone that you wouldn't do in front of your partner.
14. What was the last book you read?
E. Lynn Harris' "I Say A Little Prayer". I'm going to keep my opinion of it under wraps.
15. How often do u masturbate?
It depends on my mood. Sometimes once a week, and sometimes 3-4 times a day.
16.Who or what has had the biggest impact on your life and how?
I think that my parents not being very encouraging of anything that I did made me the independent person that I am. I had to do most of the things that I have done with no backup.
17. What is your worst habit?
Talking too damn much. I divulge too much of my personal life to friends. I need to keep some secrets to myself.
18. Physically what is your best feature?
People tell me that I have a nice ass and legs.
19.Do you enjoy porn?
Not really. But I do watch it sometimes.
20.When it is all said and done how would u like to be remembered?
Of all thw questions that you have asked, this is the one that I honesly do know how to answer.
4Gotten1, I do thank you for asking all of these questions. See what happens to the squeakiest wheel?
posted by That Dude Right There at
5/05/2006 07:12:00 PM
5 Comments:
I feel so special, I never expected you to go and answer all Twenty questions...I figured u would pick one or two u liked and that would be it.
Thank you for answering them they gave me a better insight on who you are.
When I said that I would answer ALL questions, I meant ALL questions.
You don't look like a talker....interesting!
now that was cool. gives us insight to who you really are. keep shining.
I like your definition of cheating. An interesting take on infidelity.
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