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How are love and sex connected?
Because everytime I start to love someone, I get screwed!
Because everytime I start to love someone, I get screwed!
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posted by That Dude Right There at
10/24/2007 10:56:00 PM
15 Comments:
I don't think love and sex are related at all. You can have sex with anyone and never love them. In my mind, love is a spiritual thing. It is a gift. It just doesn't happen. The trick is to know how to discern love from infatuation and lust. It is when we can't tell the difference that we get burned or in your case screwed. Love is out there, my brother. Just know that you are worthy of it, which I am sure that you do. Peace
I agree - love and sex aren't related at all naturally. Now, they can be connected - if one so chooses. But um, you can totally have sex w/someone and not be in love. But, I hear ya. They key to not getting screwed (pun intended) before its time is to remember that you and the other person are ordinary people. And WE ALL remember what Brother Legend said about ordinary people...just take it slow. So many times we rush it - we don't put time parameters on the connection and we end up doing things prematurely. And love is a many splendid thing - but the problem is this; once you start down the road, it's hard as heck to turn back. So before you start down the road, be sure it's the right road to go down. Check your road map over and over (your heart) and be sure to check his...that's what it's there for - for you to check it.
Wow...
Time for a vacation pa.
Introspection.
lol...that's funny
Could it be possibly that maybe you are loving men who just are not worthy of your love? I'm not asking to be rude or judgemental or funny I am just asking the question...
I agree with what the first couple of commenters have to say. The two aren't entwined unless you choose to. Unravel the knotted mess and keep them apart. We confuse ourselves -- and doom any relationship -- by mixing the two together.
Rich
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spitting @ the captain: you truly are a self-loathing/hateful simpleton. You ought to shut the fuck up if you can't be anything but derisive.
Sex is physical. Love is emotional. They're both connected through the act of sharing - sharing your body, inner thoughts and feelings.
Sex is all mental, but it ain't all about love.
If your goal is exceptional, mind blowing sex, then an emotional connection is cool, but isn't necessary.
"...everytime I start to love someone I get screwed." That's funny, I know what you're talking about. Maybe we just have to do more loving and less screwing.
I don't have a deep opinion on this. But that was hilarious!
the beatings will not stop until you are TOTALLY confused.
of course they are connected.. u aint gonna fall in love with someone you do not find attractive the first time u meet them. no spark, no electricity.
I think they can be connected but do not necessarily have to be. You have to constantly break bonds for it not to turn into love.
When you love someone the sex is great! No matter how bad it is! (take that last statement very loosly and with an open mind!) Then when you love someone, sex doesn't have to always exist!
LOL!!! I think neither should be connected.
Love in unconditional.
Sex is Intense.
you can have sex with anyone. You give your heart only to a select few.
LOL, boy you had me cracking up on that one!
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