tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post5731146431865557713..comments2023-10-26T06:53:57.208-05:00Comments on Getting Myself Together: Last Night I...That Dude Right Therehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05945947593109685871noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-19332468226619910122009-01-20T10:15:00.000-05:002009-01-20T10:15:00.000-05:00Is the Mill still as banjee as ever?As for the con...Is the Mill still as banjee as ever?<BR/><BR/>As for the content of this entry, we already talked.Mr. Joneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02231406990703923642noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-7424202989373445302009-01-19T21:57:00.000-05:002009-01-19T21:57:00.000-05:00I can totally understand why they're still in your...I can totally understand why they're still in your heart. I have the SAME problem. It's a blessing just as much as it's a curse.Darius T. Williamshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06225878800405121386noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-59725079088757502212009-01-14T18:52:00.000-05:002009-01-14T18:52:00.000-05:00Bachelor Mill? Now I know there had to be someplac...Bachelor Mill? Now I know there had to be someplace else that could have accomodated your evening out, but I gotta admit many years ago it was the spot for some, I remember going to Bachelor's on Sundays and Trax on Saturday, shyte I was inebriated one evening and wondered into a Go Go Club.<BR/><BR/>My brotha you have some baggage with you and it is about time you let that baggage go, old lovers can wear us down, the thing is to let go and move on, it is okay to entertain the thought of them from time to time, but if you think on them to much you start measuring all other prospects (men) to them, and that will get in the way of: getting the right Life Partner.<BR/><BR/>The dreams indicate you lone for some attention: don't we all? Yes you have sex and that satisfies your body, but your mind needs to be caressed to, but by the right partner, you have a void in your life and you are just trying to fill it the dream indicates that or something of that nature.Chethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03883472492247470269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-23866173841650531462009-01-13T20:26:00.000-05:002009-01-13T20:26:00.000-05:00I'm friends with virtually all my exes, but I did ...I'm friends with virtually all my exes, but I did take a minute to disconnect from them and allow the flaming embers to cool. It's difficult to start something new and give it a REAL chance if the comparison is so real, vivid and recent. Give it time...get into you...meet someone new...reconnect with the exes...there you go.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10988868216271744389noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-89700621460133397722009-01-13T16:39:00.000-05:002009-01-13T16:39:00.000-05:00damn well thanks for the heads up on the visit.......damn well thanks for the heads up on the visit....lolantneyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16617206463438196221noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-84261032041528790492009-01-13T14:57:00.000-05:002009-01-13T14:57:00.000-05:00IF they serve no purpose in your current life, the...IF they serve no purpose in your current life, then cut them out. They are out of your life for a reason.houstonmacbrohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10744783297181195853noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-45625846703419100612009-01-13T12:03:00.000-05:002009-01-13T12:03:00.000-05:00I don't see anything fron g with staying in contac...I don't see anything fron g with staying in contact with an ex once the romantic link is removed. But has the romantic link been completely removed? or has it just been loosened?<BR/><BR/>You also have to realize that there are many types of loves. I believe your true friends make it in your heart, as well as the ones that you're romantically involved with. You have to figure out what kind of love you have for them.fuzzyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11763000822601170398noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-39469005451089559442009-01-12T16:46:00.000-05:002009-01-12T16:46:00.000-05:00I agree with Kenny. You must explain why they are ...I agree with Kenny. You must explain why they are still in your life. <BR/><BR/>I actually had an issue similar to yours. This guy I dated was friends with his exes. I didn't find out they were exes until months later... from someone else.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-22349760593017809512009-01-12T08:51:00.000-05:002009-01-12T08:51:00.000-05:00why are you in DC... are you stalking me again?and...why are you in DC... are you stalking me again?<BR/><BR/>and why the hell would you go to the Mill?C. Baptiste-Williamshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16711715068243432712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-71079360197285933222009-01-11T22:41:00.000-05:002009-01-11T22:41:00.000-05:00It is important for you to come to grips with what...It is important for you to come to grips with what purpose these guys fulfill in your life. <BR/><BR/>If you still have romantic ties then they gotta go, if not, then it is possible for them to stay, but you will definitely have to explain to your next why they are in your life...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-76802130142280898622009-01-11T21:14:00.000-05:002009-01-11T21:14:00.000-05:00Well sugaplum, FOR ME...I learned a little while a...Well sugaplum, FOR ME...I learned a little while ago that I was keeping dudes around because it was better than being/feeling totally alone. Even tho I wasn't with them, i knew they were a call away and that was like my security blanket. It wasn't until I was able to be honest with myself in that area was I able to totally and complete cut them off and shut em down when they attempted to come back. Its hard and lonely but beneficial for me. Just something to ponder *smooches*Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-84403322936266462412009-01-11T20:26:00.000-05:002009-01-11T20:26:00.000-05:00First, dreams are the visuals of your deepest desi...First, dreams are the visuals of your deepest desires. Second, there isn't always a message in a dream. Third, I believe you dreamt of these men because you still desire them.<BR/><BR/>I guess you have to ask yourself this question: Am I alone or lonely at the moment? Do I need intimacy? I'm sure you do because you are human.<BR/><BR/>But the thing is that you can't let these men go because deep in your heart you value something there. You are getting something from them that you can't give yourself. Again, nothing wrong with it, you're human.<BR/><BR/>As far as clearing the space for the life partner to come: I have found when talking to my friends, who are married or in a long relationship, that they have all said that the person they felt was their life partner filled so much of their lives that they didn't have time for past lovers. They could barely even keep up with friends. So don't concern yourself with that.<BR/><BR/>But in the end, I believe you know the answer to why you dreamt of them. IMO, just own it and continue to work with it if it works for you.BPS 4.0 : Soul Exposurehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10972643162284543614noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-23507046854644902022009-01-11T20:23:00.000-05:002009-01-11T20:23:00.000-05:00IT really depends on whther yous still ahve romant...IT really depends on whther yous still ahve romantic attachments to these guys. If are still emotionally attached then being around them will prevent you from moving on. If you legit friends then keep them around becuase they can only be good for you. I personally don't agree with cutting off communication completely , once they know the deal.SpecialK261https://www.blogger.com/profile/10572384569764405219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-46758557478975002072009-01-11T19:08:00.000-05:002009-01-11T19:08:00.000-05:00What I wana know is...how you came to my city and ...What I wana know is...how you came to my city and didn't let me know. I outta...you know what, Jesus is my savior and I'm a good Christian woman! HUMPF!<BR/><BR/>JBJoey Bahamashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07900810125389210092noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-18685129493354910742009-01-11T17:23:00.000-05:002009-01-11T17:23:00.000-05:00I was going to say that maybe these men are coming...I was going to say that maybe these men are coming to you in your dreams to let you that they've prepared you for the ONEAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14948903601663342276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-13902743482555222892009-01-11T15:13:00.000-05:002009-01-11T15:13:00.000-05:00Oh the ragedy ass Mill. LOLwhere did you live at n...Oh the ragedy ass Mill. LOL<BR/><BR/>where did you live at n N Fla?AGBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10847718703542764049noreply@blogger.com