tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post4506290243887928554..comments2023-10-26T06:53:57.208-05:00Comments on Getting Myself Together: I'm Tired and I'm Staying Single Until...That Dude Right Therehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05945947593109685871noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-55784535829994541312007-10-30T11:50:00.000-05:002007-10-30T11:50:00.000-05:00Better to live single and free than to be a slave ...Better to live single and free than to be a slave to your coveted dissapointments. Leave the men alone and enjoy life before you die.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-17364419949218234272007-09-07T15:49:00.000-05:002007-09-07T15:49:00.000-05:00oh hun if ur tired of men and u r a man urself tha...oh hun if ur tired of men and u r a man urself than what will poor women do?but u made a really strong point there.I related to that 100% so thx for speaking ur mind.I think u pinpointed all the issues of relationships :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-49700536038248556872007-02-22T22:53:00.000-05:002007-02-22T22:53:00.000-05:00Im a woman, and even I can agree with most of what...Im a woman, and even I can agree with most of what you said, lol. <BR/>LLola Getshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07058543308191117858noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-52315957186028338342007-02-09T08:32:00.000-05:002007-02-09T08:32:00.000-05:00I’m tired, too. Lord, I’m tired. I’m tired of me...I’m tired, too. Lord, I’m tired. <BR/><BR/>I’m tired of meeting men who have 10 foot walls up around them. That’s all I seem to meet. And I am tired of it. <BR/><BR/>I'm tired of men who can't wait to have sex but when I tell them, "No, I'm looking for more than sex," then they say, "I'm just looking for friendship" or something just as contradictory. I'm tired of it.<BR/><BR/>I live many many states away from Atlanta and every other man I meet is “not trying to get into anything serious because (he) is trying to move to Atlanta." Why do men think that Atlanta is the promised land? The grass is not greener. You should set up an email account for me to refer these men to. Then you can tell them that Atlanta is no different than where they currently live. I met one Atlanta-bound man last summer and one last month. And I’m tired of it. One hated his life and the fact that he was 28 and living with momma so he had the worst attitude and I told him so: "I don't know how to deal with you because I've never seen a man with an attitude like that." I would expect his attitude from a woman with ten children who can't get no help from her baby favas. But of course, he didn't have an attitude when I first met him but it slowly started to creep out.<BR/><BR/>Like Mary J sang in "Don't Waste Your Time" her Mary CD, “I get so tired of walking away again and again.” But I've done it so much, especially in the past year, that it's easy. It still makes me tired.<BR/><BR/>And it's not me. I have my shit together. I have a decent education, job, house, attitude, body, teeth, breath, and lots of love to offer.<BR/><BR/>TIREDAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-47461729331136821382007-02-07T22:44:00.000-05:002007-02-07T22:44:00.000-05:00Darn, I'm tired now. Raise the bar that dudeDarn, I'm tired now. Raise the bar that dudelifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10835271031361930205noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-53018785174358032202007-02-07T21:58:00.000-05:002007-02-07T21:58:00.000-05:00I decided a long time ago I love being single. Ain...I decided a long time ago I love being single. Ain't nothing wrong with that. But even so, it would be nice to not have to deal with the crap on your list. (I could add a few items by the way.) But it is a fact, ain't nobody perfect. A good friend told me once that it's not about finding who you feel is your perfect match, it's about finding someone whose flaws you can learn to tolerate. Since I'm basically pretty angry and intolerant in some respects, I decided that moment to just stay single. And I do.<BR/><BR/>That don't mean there aren't some guys I pine for, though!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-7632741989551599402007-02-07T16:23:00.000-05:002007-02-07T16:23:00.000-05:00@Hondo's Boy--I'm not being unrealistic. I never ...@Hondo's Boy--I'm not being unrealistic. I never said that I wouldn't deal with these things. I said that I was TIRED of them. I don't want them to be perfect, just compatible with me.<br /><br />@Ladynay--For some reason, I knew that you would understand.<br /><br />@Reddmann-One of the tags is "RANT". LOLThat Dude Right Therehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05945947593109685871noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-57080716067993288982007-02-07T16:11:00.000-05:002007-02-07T16:11:00.000-05:00here he go ranting again... LOL
like the posthere he go ranting again... LOL <br /><br />like the postC. Baptiste-Williamshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16711715068243432712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-32412647082607084112007-02-07T13:28:00.000-05:002007-02-07T13:28:00.000-05:00Staying single till you decide otherwise...good mo...Staying single till you decide otherwise...good move. We all need some time to ourselves whether we like it or not, we need it.Ladynayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13767090012719390044noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-73029158247412914352007-02-07T12:24:00.000-05:002007-02-07T12:24:00.000-05:00I feel you on some of the statements but, to be pe...I feel you on some of the statements but, to be perfectly honest, I think that in some regards you are being a little unrealistic. If you met a man that had none of the characteristics you describe, he would , in fact, be perfect and we all know there are no perfect men. It seems like you may (and I could be wrong here, so don't take offense) want things to be too easy. Love is not easy. We need to understand that in order to date and love someone we take on, not only the good things about them, but we take on their "shit", if you will. Give some of these brothas a break because when you do find the one that meets the criterion you set forth, I guarantee he will present you with another laundry list of things you're going to add in a future post...Be easy. Live life. Give them all a chance. The good, the bad and the ugly ones. lol.Hondo's Boyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13286362085246358885noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-76266818835664918062007-02-07T11:26:00.000-05:002007-02-07T11:26:00.000-05:00@Captain--Stop doing that. You know it's annoying...@Captain--Stop doing that. You know it's annoying.<br /><br />@Pono--I have in my life dated 1 real man. Distance kept up from sustaining a relationship.<br /><br /><br />@Anonymous#1--I hate to get defensive, but you missed the whole point of the post. These are things that I hate dealing with, but it's all I seem to get. So, until you walk a mile in my moccassins, shut the fuck up.<br /><br />@Anonymous#2--Being single can't be that bad.That Dude Right Therehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05945947593109685871noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-6676770124590221072007-02-07T09:04:00.000-05:002007-02-07T09:04:00.000-05:00I'm feeling the "might have to stay single forever...I'm feeling the "might have to stay single forever" statement!<br /><br />*sigh* I know how you feelAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-5392575857339987552007-02-07T08:26:00.000-05:002007-02-07T08:26:00.000-05:00LOL...yeah i think u need to stay single...you com...LOL...yeah i think u need to stay single...you complain too much...it seems like every other blog is man bashing...its not that serious bro...and u in the gay capital of the country...maybe its not all the men or boyz u meeting...maybe its the man in the mirror....."you can only expect what your willing to bring"Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-18249521184148712272007-02-07T01:10:00.000-05:002007-02-07T01:10:00.000-05:00To look at the immediate for the full development ...To look at the immediate for the full development of that which is to be, absent in sight is presently available beyond the sense of our natural ability. Touching which is intangible with our hope that will overly satisfy this void that which is described.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com