tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post2212656280700838287..comments2023-10-26T06:53:57.208-05:00Comments on Getting Myself Together: I Don't Understand How...That Dude Right Therehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05945947593109685871noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-63949371394785669442009-04-18T18:24:00.000-05:002009-04-18T18:24:00.000-05:00Norris...you are so preaching to the choir. I'm o...Norris...you are so preaching to the choir. I'm one that says if I'll be there at 8:30, then I'll be there at 8:30. I hate when I make plans with folks and then they waltz in an hour or two late. One thing I'll say about my ex-Rock, despite our issues, I credit him with at least being a prompt person. If he says he'll be there at a certain time, he usually is and if he can't, he'll give you advance notice. Apparently it's hard to find that basic quality in folks.Ehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02927913231608056129noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-64528281051414747762009-04-18T13:04:00.000-05:002009-04-18T13:04:00.000-05:00I think that people really don't see themselves......I think that people really don't see themselves... I think you are in your right too....I have more to say on this later!TheBlogArtistFormerlyKnownAsYBandDLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12204959178359041845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-69972377687553034912009-04-16T09:30:00.000-05:002009-04-16T09:30:00.000-05:00Cardinal Rule Number 2: Never ever hangout with mo...Cardinal Rule Number 2: Never ever hangout with more than one other good good friend. Then there's Rule Number One: Always do you and leave out the need to be with a clique and their mess...Troy N.https://www.blogger.com/profile/04287979767025598757noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-59259817567633909312009-04-14T16:46:00.000-05:002009-04-14T16:46:00.000-05:00Well if it means anything I would show up on time....Well if it means anything I would show up on time.Kyon Saucierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02842634449060165965noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-57673933168337695992009-04-14T09:25:00.000-05:002009-04-14T09:25:00.000-05:00Yeah, i wouldn't hang out with anyone who can't th...Yeah, i wouldn't hang out with anyone who can't think beyond themselves. There are other people out there who would appreciate your courteousness... people just suck sometimes.UrSoVainhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09540946228997645274noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-48629139494535074502009-04-13T23:42:00.000-05:002009-04-13T23:42:00.000-05:00Yea u "always" keep ur word...boy booYea u "always" keep ur word...boy booAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-83781507651341624532009-04-11T12:39:00.000-05:002009-04-11T12:39:00.000-05:00Like BPS 4.0 : Soul Exposure says, know who your f...Like BPS 4.0 : Soul Exposure says, know who your friends are and you won't be surpised by their actions or have to second guess your own reactions.Curioushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03784893681266233567noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-84218838645457754082009-04-11T08:19:00.000-05:002009-04-11T08:19:00.000-05:00I think you are completely in the right. As we ma...I think you are completely in the right. As we mature, we should recognize that the teenage behavior of being inconsiderate with folks' time will not be tolerated. There's nothing to be sorry for and you didn't overreact. Hey, you did more than I would have done. I don't think I would've changed the meeting time, called AND texted follow-ups. Move on to more considerate hang-out partners. Time is a-wastin'!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10988868216271744389noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-50822320123396189112009-04-11T08:00:00.000-05:002009-04-11T08:00:00.000-05:00Same thing happened to me recently, only I waited ...Same thing happened to me recently, only I waited for an hour before heading home.<BR/><BR/>I don't think you overreacted at all. They underreacted, if anything.b.goodhttp://shesopinionated.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-764811130115455912009-04-11T01:11:00.000-05:002009-04-11T01:11:00.000-05:00Ooh do we have the same friends. I went through t...Ooh do we have the same friends. I went through this and I am the one who is always on time. I felt like a fool sometimes but I learned to chill and give back a taste of medicine to all of them.<BR/><BR/>Now I pick places where I can sit at the bar and at least flirt with the bartender while the "girls" take their time to get to the bar or restaurant. I am never mad and I don't expect much from them so no disappointment.<BR/><BR/>I'm not saying you are wrong for how you felt. Just saying that you have to know people and act accordingly. I have a brother who says 5 minutes which means 40. I know how to deal with him.BPS 4.0 : Soul Exposurehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10972643162284543614noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-17164736551777019602009-04-10T16:42:00.000-05:002009-04-10T16:42:00.000-05:00I agree with you, and personally can't stand when ...I agree with you, and personally can't stand when people do it. I don't think you over reacted, or were out of line one bit.Sozo's Blog.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05383112237664475181noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-36915128716109634312009-04-10T12:30:00.000-05:002009-04-10T12:30:00.000-05:00I think you are well within your right to be unset...I think you are well within your right to be unsettled by this scenario. It is disrespectful to agree on a day and time and then casually not honor it. And worse, what would have happened if you had not called them. Apparently, they have friends or associates who do not hold them accountable to holding up their end of an agreement. This is not acceptable and you need to set some boundaries with them so that this will not happen again. You need to explain to them how disrespectful it is, and also how it makes you feel.Lee PJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08496727309902282075noreply@blogger.com