tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post115638567335785812..comments2023-10-26T06:53:57.208-05:00Comments on Getting Myself Together: Exit OnlyThat Dude Right Therehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05945947593109685871noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-1157547938544316112006-09-06T08:05:00.000-05:002006-09-06T08:05:00.000-05:00You are doing it the right way... get the stuff ou...You are doing it the right way... get the stuff out of the way in the beginning... while it is true people can change who is to say that they will change in a time frame that is conducive to your needs... what it sounds like to me is that you are really finding out if you are compatible in areas that are of importance to you... Good for you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-1157302791865725322006-09-03T11:59:00.000-05:002006-09-03T11:59:00.000-05:00Oh, my God...didn't you have a post similar too th...Oh, my God...didn't you have a post similar too this one before? Anyways, I swear we are having the same problem. The guy I am dating is really into the church and doesn't want to have sex. I have slept over his house a bunch of times but he doesn't want to have sex at all. I sort of convinced him to have sex with me and after he wanted to talk and said it could not happen again and that he wants to be in a relationship with someone he is sleeping with...sigh...so, I didn't want to seem like a lil hoe so I agreed...but I talked to my GF and I told her that I just could not handle a man that does not want to have sex because it is important to me...and on top of that he wants me to go to bible study all the time and anyone who knows me knows that that is just not me...so hang in there son...I am with you in spirit.That Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09630019444427226801noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-1157173122881248572006-09-01T23:58:00.000-05:002006-09-01T23:58:00.000-05:00Hey...it's never too early. You're right. You do...Hey...it's never too early. You're right. You don't want to waste time.Ehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02927913231608056129noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-1156920466066075802006-08-30T01:47:00.000-05:002006-08-30T01:47:00.000-05:00Apparently, these things are important to you, so,...Apparently, these things are important to you, so, no it's not too early. I definitely understand the kids part, but will you break up with someone because of sex. Well, ppl stay together for sex, solifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10835271031361930205noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-1156814464312293642006-08-28T20:21:00.000-05:002006-08-28T20:21:00.000-05:00i feel it's touchy and always chancy to bring it u...i feel it's touchy and always chancy to bring it up..there never seems to be a perfect time. so why not go for it. especially the deal-breaker type stuff. Time is too preciousOmar Ramonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11951566168273716231noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-1156733721219467852006-08-27T21:55:00.000-05:002006-08-27T21:55:00.000-05:00I think its perfectly fine! My goal is finding lon...I think its perfectly fine! My goal is finding long-term effection. Like you said My dick aint retired. Thats an issue that may cause unfaithfulness later on and you would wanna nip that in the bud before it starts! I view it as disqualifying traits and attributes that will save both of our time.fuzzyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11763000822601170398noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-1156565558060912272006-08-25T23:12:00.000-05:002006-08-25T23:12:00.000-05:00I think it is better to get things out of the way ...I think it is better to get things out of the way as early as possible. <BR/><BR/>If you feel a vibe with the person and begin to date them regularly then it is only natural -- if you want to be compatible -- that you get certain things out of the way. <BR/><BR/>Personally, even before a relationship looks promising, I always inform the other person that I am agnostic and non-spiritual. One guy could not deal with it and this created a problem when I refused to go to church with him. There was this disconnect and we had to end the relationship after a couple months because of my irreligiousness.<BR/><BR/>Funny enough, it never mattered to my former partner of eight years, who was deeply religious and meditated a lot.<BR/><BR/>So, whether it's sex or kids, get it out of the way. Sooner rather than later.Billy Dunnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16406578314588005698noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-1156447051375241512006-08-24T14:17:00.000-05:002006-08-24T14:17:00.000-05:00I think that it is a good thing to get those type ...I think that it is a good thing to get those type of thing out early in a relationship. If he isn't willing to bend over for you, you know how to take or allow the relationship to develop based on that. Why wait until you are in love with him and vice versa and then discover that you two are not compatible sexually?Tyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06381669996518441790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-1156419959213164752006-08-24T06:45:00.000-05:002006-08-24T06:45:00.000-05:00I think that all issues that are important to you ...I think that all issues that are important to you should be addressed early on in a relationship so like you said, nobody wastes time.Ladynayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13767090012719390044noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-1156407832443730202006-08-24T03:23:00.000-05:002006-08-24T03:23:00.000-05:00I think it's important to establish all that in th...I think it's important to establish all that in the beginning so no one time will be wasted everyone knows what each other likes, hey hopefully he comes around, but he said he tried it once and didn't like it and he said he would NEVER do it again, so he might change his mind but I will be a little skeptical because when and if it comes down to it he starts acting scary?shereejoihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17668600823573599249noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-1156404852133712132006-08-24T02:34:00.000-05:002006-08-24T02:34:00.000-05:00Sexual attraction is major in all relationships. ...Sexual attraction is major in all relationships. You must be compatible. So if you are a bottom but sometimes prefer top, your mate needs to understand and be open to your needs. If not, there will be problems in the future.<BR/><BR/>For example, as a female, if a man doesn't want to perform oral sex, I just tell him to hit the road. There are just some things that are not negotiable! lolAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com