tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post112796224918092769..comments2023-10-26T06:53:57.208-05:00Comments on Getting Myself Together: Berlin WallThat Dude Right Therehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05945947593109685871noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-1130311981285607972005-10-26T02:33:00.000-05:002005-10-26T02:33:00.000-05:00Ok i know im late but i had to comment on this one...Ok i know im late but i had to comment on this one....what your friend calls "the berlin wall" I call PRESCREENING and there is nothing wrong with it as long as you are clear about your intentions with the person from the start. there is no reason why you need to accept anything less than what you want and you have to keep in mind that proper preparation prevents poor performance...keep preparing yourself for the relationship you want and in the meantime keep prescreening and let me know if u need some pointers :)Bobby Brown Jr.https://www.blogger.com/profile/18315297434475217672noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-1128040979477807862005-09-29T19:42:00.000-05:002005-09-29T19:42:00.000-05:00I do the same thing. I've "investidated" about the...I do the same thing. I've "investidated" about the same number as you this year and I'm a whole lot happier with my dating life than I was when I wanted to be serious with someone. It's ironic too, how folks jump outta the woodwork tryna lock you down when you're really not feelin it. I think that has a lot to do with fear of being by themselves or a need to conquer more than it does us, tho. Lotta folks want that ego boost... coz they try to get you to eliminate your options before they even really know you. Who has time for that silliness???~ Eclectic Soul ~https://www.blogger.com/profile/04938599523655247065noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-1128001888976143902005-09-29T08:51:00.000-05:002005-09-29T08:51:00.000-05:00i wish that i could be so controlled. when i real...i wish that i could be so controlled. when i really like someone, i lose it.Blushhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04359961340829193889noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-1127997562113956182005-09-29T07:39:00.000-05:002005-09-29T07:39:00.000-05:00interesting ... i am a firm believer that you do w...interesting ... i am a firm believer that you do what works for you as long as the outcomes are good. <BR/><BR/>if its a berlin wall you need, then hey go for it. however, if you start to doubt the necessity of the wall, then you need to get rid of it. <BR/><BR/>personally, i cant have a berlin wall. i honestly do not think it is in my character!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14663462034592911868noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14505243.post-1127965461950184662005-09-28T22:44:00.000-05:002005-09-28T22:44:00.000-05:00I don't blame you. I need to build my own Berlin ...I don't blame you. I need to build my own Berlin wall. I let guys in way too soon and am way too trusting. Or maybe overly hopeful...*LOL*. Either way, I'm working on it.Ehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02927913231608056129noreply@blogger.com